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More Than Just Meals: Sharing the Spirit of Ramadan


Ramadan has started again, this year last 11 March 2024 (Monday) and with it, the warmth of shared meals and thoughtful gestures. My flatmate, an Indian Muslim, has consistently embodied the spirit of this holy month in a way that goes beyond religious observance. It all started last year during Ramadan. Every evening, he would give me a plastic bag or a box filled with delicious food. It wasn't just a meal; it was a silent invitation to learn about his religion and culture, and a reminder of the importance of community.

The Essence of Ramadan: A Time for Reflection and Generosity

For Muslims, Ramadan is a time for spiritual growth, self-reflection, and heightened compassion. Fasting from dawn to dusk allows them to empathize with those less fortunate and appreciate the blessings in their lives. 

But Ramadan is more than just abstaining from food and drink. It's a period dedicated to prayer, charity (Zakat), and acts of kindness.

Sharing Food: A Universal Expression of Care

One of the most beautiful aspects of Ramadan is the emphasis on sharing food. 

The breaking of the fast, called Iftar, is a communal event where families and friends gather to enjoy a meal together. By offering me an Iftar meal box, my flatmate has extended to me this tradition of sharing and expressing his care, regardless of my own religious beliefs. 

It's a testament to the universality of kindness and the way food transcends cultural boundaries to nourish not just the body, but also the spirit.

The "Best" Ramadan Package? It's About the Heart

Now, before you start searching for the "best" Ramadan package online, remember, the true essence of this time lies not in fancy packaging or exotic offerings, but in the spirit of giving. 

One of my favorite packages from my Muslim friend is definitely the one I got from Curry Express. Their delicious chicken biryani, perfectly packaged dates, refreshing Laban milk, fresh orange, samosa and water,  are a delightful start to the evening meal.

But what truly makes it special is the spirit of generosity behind it, a sentiment echoed by Maya Angelou's words:

I have found that among its other benefits, giving liberates the soul of the giver.

I passionately maintain that acts of kindness, big or small, have the power to bridge cultural divides and foster understanding. This Ramadan, let's all strive to share a bit more, whether it's a meal, a kind word, or simply our time.

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Ending Hunger: A Global Responsibility

While Ramadan serves as a powerful reminder of hunger, the fight against food insecurity is a year-round battle. 

We can all play a part by supporting local food banks, raising awareness, and advocating for policies that ensure everyone has access to nutritious meals.

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A Wish for a Pure Heart and Prayers for my Flatmate's Family

Your generosity and kindness have enriched my life in countless ways. Your heart is truly pure, and the way you share your blessings during Ramadan is an inspiration. During this holy month, I want to send my heartfelt wishes for your continued spiritual growth and well-being. May your prayers be answered, and may your family in India be showered with joy and peace.  This Ramadan, and throughout the year, may the spirit of sharing and compassion continue to guide us all.

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