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Ghosted by Grub? Dealing with Food Exclusion and Passive-Aggresive 'Friends'

  Have you ever found yourself surrounded by the delicious aroma of homemade food, only to realize you are the only one not offered a bite?  This frustrating scenario, where someone excludes you from their food sharing, can leave you feeling confused, hurt, and maybe a little hangry. Why Does This Happen? There are several reasons why someone might engage in this kind of passive-aggressive behavior.  Maybe he / she holds a grudge you are unaware of, feels socially anxious about inclusion, or is simply dealing with his / her own issues that manifest in exclusionary ways. The Power of Food Sharing Food is more than sustenance. It is a universal language of love, community, and connection. Sharing a meal signifies trust, bonding, and a sense of belonging.  Being excluded from this ritual can be a real blow, especially if it is a recurring pattern. So, You've Been Ghosted by Grub. Now What? I have experienced that many times with some people who think they are very godly, religious and